<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268</id><updated>2011-11-27T19:21:19.631-05:00</updated><category term='receptions'/><category term='women'/><category term='advice'/><category term='wedding venues'/><category term='ceremonies'/><category term='contests'/><category term='detroit'/><category term='books'/><category term='funny videos'/><category term='bridal shower ideas'/><category term='maid-of-honor'/><category term='wedding photography'/><category term='marriage'/><category term='10 random things'/><category term='African Traditions'/><category term='unique ideas'/><category term='elopement in your city'/><category term='Poll'/><category term='groom'/><category term='small weddings'/><category term='parents'/><category term='christian marriage'/><category term='single women'/><category term='under $300'/><category term='celebrity couples'/><category term='sendoff'/><category term='blended families'/><category term='People I love'/><category term='1st Dance'/><category term='wedding music'/><category term='Processional'/><category term='bridezilla'/><category term='engagement'/><title type='text'>My BIG FAT Black Wedding</title><subtitle type='html'>a blog exploring the beauty and humor of African-American weddings.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>35</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-4619405439894495313</id><published>2010-04-27T11:07:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-27T11:07:42.430-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Wedding Problems: 5 People Who Will Try to Take Over Your Wedding Day</title><summary type='text'>Wedding Problems: 5 People Who Will Try to Take Over Your Wedding Day</summary><link rel='related' href='http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-planning/wedding-problems/articles/wedding-hijackers-5-people-who-might-take-over-your-wedding.aspx?sms_ss=blogger' title='Wedding Problems: 5 People Who Will Try to Take Over Your Wedding Day'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/4619405439894495313/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2010/04/wedding-problems-5-people-who-will-try.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/4619405439894495313'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/4619405439894495313'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2010/04/wedding-problems-5-people-who-will-try.html' title='Wedding Problems: 5 People Who Will Try to Take Over Your Wedding Day'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-3579357099928194004</id><published>2009-12-17T09:16:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-04-23T09:54:07.480-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Walmart Your Wedding</title><summary type='text'>Okay so we all know that everything under the sun can be found at Walmart from apples to coffins. I personally despise the place because its overwhelming, the lines are long, and I always spend waaaaaaay more than I intend when I go in there.  We'll you know what, whenever you have a wedding you ALWAYS spend more than you intend anyway so why not WALMART your wedding?  Get (just about) everything</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/3579357099928194004/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/walmart-your-wedding.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/3579357099928194004'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/3579357099928194004'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/walmart-your-wedding.html' title='Walmart Your Wedding'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-6251014232216227248</id><published>2009-12-16T10:14:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-16T10:16:36.127-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='advice'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='engagement'/><title type='text'>Challenges to Engagement</title><summary type='text'>By Dave Pipitone                                            Your engagement relationship is a special time that you want to protect and grow. The ultimate goal of your engagement is to develop the roots to build a lasting marriage. There are many challenges that can stress and pull a lasting marriage apart during this current time in history. Rutgers University released its 2007 report, The </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/6251014232216227248/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/challenges-to-engagement.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/6251014232216227248'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/6251014232216227248'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/challenges-to-engagement.html' title='Challenges to Engagement'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-8314805573674614359</id><published>2009-12-15T16:23:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-15T16:30:34.255-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Brides Against Breast Cancer GOWN SALE</title><summary type='text'>ATLANTABRIDAL.COM PRESENTS:2010 Atlanta Gown Sale Information           &lt;!--***Brides PRE-REGISTER Here******Bride Sneak Preview Sale Reservations - Click Here***--&gt;  Location:The Defoor Centre1710 Defoor Avenue, NWAtlanta, Georgia 30318Dates/Times:Sneak Preview Event!Thursday 01/28/2010: 6:00pm - 10:00pm&lt;!--Tickets will go on sale closer to date of event.--&gt;Get 1st Pick of the Gowns!Reservations</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/8314805573674614359/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/brides-against-breast-cancer-gown-sale.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/8314805573674614359'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/8314805573674614359'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/brides-against-breast-cancer-gown-sale.html' title='Brides Against Breast Cancer GOWN SALE'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-4068977632309000776</id><published>2009-12-15T11:02:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-15T11:06:15.290-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='contests'/><title type='text'>Barceló Maya Palace Deluxe Honeymoon Giveaway</title><summary type='text'>Picture you and your new hubby celebrating your marriage on one of the most beautiful beaches of the Riviera Maya. The Barceló Maya Palace Deluxe Hotel can offer you just that. This fabulous hotel is located in a spectacular natural setting and was inspired by authentic colonial culture, making it extremely unique.You could win an all-expense paid honeymoon including 6 nights/7 days hotel </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/4068977632309000776/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/barcelo-maya-palace-deluxe-honeymoon.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/4068977632309000776'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/4068977632309000776'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/barcelo-maya-palace-deluxe-honeymoon.html' title='Barceló Maya Palace Deluxe Honeymoon Giveaway'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-7359067439497521580</id><published>2009-12-15T10:37:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-15T10:43:36.273-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='advice'/><title type='text'>Steve Harvey is Taking Your Questions</title><summary type='text'>Steve Harvey is Taking Your QuestionsTuesday, December 15, 2009  7:00 AMDo you have relationship questions for Steve Harvey, The New York Times Bestselling Author of Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man? If so, he may answer them in an upcoming issue of ESSENCE. The Love Guru is in the building.Email your queries to stevehelps@essence.comAlong with your question, please include the following:NAME:</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/7359067439497521580/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/steve-harvey-is-taking-your-questions.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/7359067439497521580'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/7359067439497521580'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/steve-harvey-is-taking-your-questions.html' title='Steve Harvey is Taking Your Questions'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-5459260958031875045</id><published>2009-12-14T19:41:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-14T19:51:06.080-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding music'/><title type='text'>My strongest weakness is you</title><summary type='text'>Just in case anyone is searching for the lyrics to this hard to find but popular wedding song. Here they are."My  Strongest Weakness is You"originally recorded by the Truthettes also recorded by Tina Fabrique (listen here)When we first met I was in disparenothing seemed to matterand I didnt really careyou placed your arms around meand I grew in your graceYOur the the reason whythers a smile upon </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/5459260958031875045/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/my-strongest-weakness-is-you.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/5459260958031875045'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/5459260958031875045'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/my-strongest-weakness-is-you.html' title='My strongest weakness is you'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-7578785757125308450</id><published>2009-12-10T21:35:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-10T21:48:29.318-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='10 random things'/><title type='text'>Weddings By The Numbers</title><summary type='text'>Here comes the bride! And another! And another! And another! June is peak season for getting hitched -- and for the lucrative nuptial industry, from gowns to flowers to catering. Here's a look at the facts and figures of weddings. 2,190,363 couples were wedded in the U.S. in 2008.   The world's longest-married living couple, Zelmyra &amp; Herbert Fisher of North Carolina, were, at press time, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/7578785757125308450/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/weddings-by-numbers.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/7578785757125308450'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/7578785757125308450'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/weddings-by-numbers.html' title='Weddings By The Numbers'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-5129129016145775292</id><published>2009-12-10T09:24:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-10T09:31:27.933-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='African Traditions'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bridal shower ideas'/><title type='text'>Rites of Passage: Unique Showers from African Traditions</title><summary type='text'>If we look to our ancestors in Africa for pre-wedding customs, we find an emphasis on the spiritual preparations for marriage. The elders of the community advise the betrothed couple -- separately, in single-sex sessions -- on the meaning and responsibilities of the union they are about to enter into. For Wolof women, the practice is called “Loading the Bride.” Many cultures also perform </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/5129129016145775292/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/rites-of-passage-unique-showers-from.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/5129129016145775292'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/5129129016145775292'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/rites-of-passage-unique-showers-from.html' title='Rites of Passage: Unique Showers from African Traditions'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-3471991206227894378</id><published>2009-12-08T10:08:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-08T10:38:21.774-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='receptions'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sendoff'/><title type='text'>Don't Forget the GRAND EXIT !!!</title><summary type='text'>As a photographer I look forward to every Kodak moment at the weddings that work. Unfortunately for me I have never been to a wedding that has celebrated the tradition of the grand SENDOFF of the bride and groom.  Typically at these weddings the guest slowly leave, the cleaning crew starts to clean up and put things away, and the bride and groom just gets in their car.  Is it because everyone is </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/3471991206227894378/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/dont-forget-grand-exit.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/3471991206227894378'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/3471991206227894378'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/dont-forget-grand-exit.html' title='Don&apos;t Forget the GRAND EXIT !!!'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-6539281650779371943</id><published>2009-12-07T14:36:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-07T14:47:53.803-05:00</updated><title type='text'>MBFB Wedding is back!!</title><summary type='text'>I apologize to any of my readers, Its been a busy few months and I haven't been able to do my research and dive deep into the wedding abyss that I usually would be into but all is well.  I am back and ready to continue giving you the best and most unique and practical information I possibly can!In the meantime check out my new listing on GETMARRIED.COM  </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/6539281650779371943/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/mbfb-wedding-is-back.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/6539281650779371943'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/6539281650779371943'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/12/mbfb-wedding-is-back.html' title='MBFB Wedding is back!!'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-3726495111989218754</id><published>2009-09-14T12:05:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-14T12:10:58.911-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='advice'/><title type='text'>"The Conversation" New Book By Hill Harper</title><summary type='text'>New York Times best selling author, Hill Harper, just released a new book entitled "The Conversation."  The book is a necessary read for single and engaged African-American couples.ABOUT THE CONVERSATION Only 34 percent of African- American children today are raised in two-parent households, a sharp contrast to 1966, when 85 percent of black children were raised by two parents. In provocative but</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/3726495111989218754/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/conversation-new-book-by-hill-harper.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/3726495111989218754'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/3726495111989218754'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/conversation-new-book-by-hill-harper.html' title='&quot;The Conversation&quot; New Book By Hill Harper'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-7185683475856152051</id><published>2009-09-12T16:32:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-27T22:16:15.971-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Just Say NO to courthouse weddings: Low Cost weddings around Newark &amp; NYC</title><summary type='text'>BFB CITY :Newark, NJ &amp; New York CityWEDDING VENUES:Approx 4 hours 43 mins from New York City you will find Fox and Grapes . There packages start at $375.84. Fox and Grapes Bed and Breakfast is located at 9496 State Route 414 • Lodi, NY 14860 Phone: 607-582-7528.About 2hours from the Newark/NYC area is Atlantic City. Atlantic City Wedding Chapel loacated at New Hampshire Ave. Atlantic City, NJ  </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/7185683475856152051/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/just-say-no-to-courthouse-weddings-low.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/7185683475856152051'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/7185683475856152051'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/just-say-no-to-courthouse-weddings-low.html' title='Just Say NO to courthouse weddings: Low Cost weddings around Newark &amp; NYC'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-4718922035996921624</id><published>2009-09-10T12:34:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-12T16:28:32.452-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='under $300'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='elopement in your city'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='small weddings'/><title type='text'>Just Say NO to courthouse weddings: Weddings under $300 around Miami, FL</title><summary type='text'>BFB CITY :MIAMI GARDENS, FLWEDDING VENUES:With many Miami-Dade County beach locations you will find Forever In Love . There packages start at $225. Forever In Love holds elegant beach Wedding Ceremonies and Vow Renewals in Miami Beach, Ft. Lauderdale, and the Palm Beaches. Phone: 305-793-1572Hold your sunset or sunrise beach wedding with Intimate Miami Beach Weddings. Their no-frills elopement </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/4718922035996921624/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/elopement-in-your-city-miami-florida.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/4718922035996921624'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/4718922035996921624'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/elopement-in-your-city-miami-florida.html' title='Just Say NO to courthouse weddings: Weddings under $300 around Miami, FL'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-1131611350649461384</id><published>2009-09-08T22:08:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-12T16:29:42.817-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='detroit'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='under $300'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='elopement in your city'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='small weddings'/><title type='text'>Just Say NO to courthouse weddings: Weddings under $300 around Detroit, MI</title><summary type='text'>BFB CITY : DETROIT, MICHIGANWEDDING VENUES IN YOUR CITY:About 50 mins. from Detroit in Ann Arbor, MI you will find Teacup Weddings . There packages start at $75 OR $150 with a minister performing the cermony. Teacup Weddings is located at 5347 Plymouth RoadAnn Arbor, MI 48105 ph: 734-669-5347 and can book on short notice.Approx. 1 hour outside of Detroit in Davison,MI you will find Faith </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/1131611350649461384/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/elopement-in-your-city-detroit-michigan.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/1131611350649461384'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/1131611350649461384'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/elopement-in-your-city-detroit-michigan.html' title='Just Say NO to courthouse weddings: Weddings under $300 around Detroit, MI'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-4638936572635988572</id><published>2009-09-04T21:33:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-12T16:22:05.259-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='elopement in your city'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='small weddings'/><title type='text'>Just Say NO to courthouse weddings: All-inclusive weddings under $300 in your in your BFB City</title><summary type='text'>Just Say NO to courthouse weddings: Low-Cost Small Ceremony Alternatives IN YOUR BFB CITY blog post series.As I have posted before I eloped, in Vegas, and I got a great all-inculsive wedding package for $250. It was beautiful. Anyway, I give two big swollen thumbs DOWN to courthouse weddings PLEASE for the love of GOD, don't do it! Many cities and small towns offer vegas-type all inclusive </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/4638936572635988572/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/elopement-in-your-city-gary-indiana.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/4638936572635988572'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/4638936572635988572'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/elopement-in-your-city-gary-indiana.html' title='Just Say NO to courthouse weddings: All-inclusive weddings under $300 in your in your BFB City'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-5080122938147331097</id><published>2009-09-04T16:22:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-12T16:31:32.231-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding venues'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='under $300'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='elopement in your city'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='small weddings'/><title type='text'>Just Say NO to courthouse weddings: Weddings under $300 around Gary, In</title><summary type='text'>BFB CITY :GARY, INDIANAWEDDING VENUES:Approx. 3 hours from Gary in Greenfield,IN you will find Garden Weddings. Chapel rental starts at $200 - 280 plus the officiant cost. Garden Weddings is located at 226 West North StreetGreenfield, Indiana 46140 phone 317-468-1933.Approx 3 hours 20 mins from Gary in Nashville, IN you will find Brown County Indiana Wedding Chapel. Their carnation package starts</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/5080122938147331097/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/just-say-no-to-courthouse-weddings.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/5080122938147331097'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/5080122938147331097'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/just-say-no-to-courthouse-weddings.html' title='Just Say NO to courthouse weddings: Weddings under $300 around Gary, In'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-3780329799407488793</id><published>2009-09-04T12:09:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-04T18:34:21.280-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Processional'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding music'/><title type='text'>6 Unique Songs for the Entrance of the Bride</title><summary type='text'>Heres a list of songs, song samples, and lyrics for great songs for YOU to use at your BFBW! 1. When I First Saw You (Duet) - Jamie Foxx &amp; Beyoncé Knowlesthere is also a version with Jamie Foxx only both versions are great!!Lyrics |  - When I First Saw You lyrics2. Make Me Whole - Amel Larrieux CHORUS TO "MAKE ME WHOLE"Cause your eyes are the windows to heavenYour smile could heal a million </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/3780329799407488793/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/6-unique-songs-for-entrance-of-bride.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/3780329799407488793'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/3780329799407488793'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/6-unique-songs-for-entrance-of-bride.html' title='6 Unique Songs for the Entrance of the Bride'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-7460800928568340876</id><published>2009-09-03T09:58:00.012-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-03T15:54:08.497-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='single women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='christian marriage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='advice'/><title type='text'>Independent Women VS The Proverbs 31 Women: Who Gets &amp; Keeps Tha Man?</title><summary type='text'>There are a million artists out here making these songs paying homage to the Independent women.  Ne-Yo's "Miss Independent", Jaime Foxx's "She Got Her Own", Beyonce's"Independent Women" are anthems for women ..... single....women.  Constantly we hear men saying that this is the type of "chick" they want, for a girl... not necessarily a wife, but maybe a wifey.In this city [Atlanta] there is a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/7460800928568340876/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/independent-women-vs-proverbs-31-women.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/7460800928568340876'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/7460800928568340876'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/independent-women-vs-proverbs-31-women.html' title='Independent Women VS The Proverbs 31 Women: Who Gets &amp; Keeps Tha Man?'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-3046321979525854609</id><published>2009-09-01T11:49:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T11:50:08.910-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Wedding Night Live</title><summary type='text'>                              “Wedding Night Live”Now Casting Couples in NYC, L.A., and Atlanta areas! A Major Cable Network is producing an amazing night of weddings LIVE on television!Lucky couples chosen will receive $10,000!!!We are seeking couples with good back-stories who are marrying on 11/21/09 – OR- are willing to change the date/time to 11/21/09! If you are getting married in NYC, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/3046321979525854609/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/wedding-night-live-now.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/3046321979525854609'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/3046321979525854609'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/wedding-night-live-now.html' title='Wedding Night Live'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-5053658764104982865</id><published>2009-08-31T20:07:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-31T21:38:25.395-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='People I love'/><title type='text'>I love Preston Bailey</title><summary type='text'>Preston Bailey is a world renowned wedding and event designer/planning.  His inspiration is derived from the tropical environments of his native Panama, as well as using a creative mixture of color palettes, textures, and architectial inspirations.  He likes to modernize traditional elements creating extravagant floral and lighting fantasies for both the celebrity and the royal.  One thing that I</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/5053658764104982865/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/i-love-preston-bailey.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/5053658764104982865'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/5053658764104982865'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/i-love-preston-bailey.html' title='I love Preston Bailey'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-1088182652726261295</id><published>2009-08-31T16:28:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-31T16:47:48.857-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='women'/><title type='text'>Strong Black Women Syndrome</title><summary type='text'>Back in college I did speech on the Myth of the Strong Black Women which was inspired by a article I read in a pregnancy book.  Below is an article on the topic.                                                 &lt;!-- php client madison [r20090825-1733-IgnorePrefetchers]: 216.239.113.223 GET /html/BRAND=14/CLIENT:ID=CHEETAH/CNET%2dONTOLOGY%2dNODE%2dID=15069/CNET%2dPAGE%2dGUID=</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/1088182652726261295/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/strong-black-women-syndrome.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/1088182652726261295'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/1088182652726261295'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/strong-black-women-syndrome.html' title='Strong Black Women Syndrome'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-4151060098568174080</id><published>2009-08-23T17:46:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-23T18:53:07.707-04:00</updated><title type='text'>My Little Skinny Vegas Wedding.</title><summary type='text'>My husband and I got married, on a whim, on New Years Eve eve in Las Vegas. It was little and skinny cause it was only five people there. LOL. Yet it was the sweetest day of my life!  I wish that more of my family could have been there and all this wedding research that I do for this blog is making me ultra jealous that I didn't opt for a traditional wedding.  On the upside I'm getting some </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/4151060098568174080/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/my-little-skinny-vegas-wedding.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/4151060098568174080'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/4151060098568174080'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/my-little-skinny-vegas-wedding.html' title='My Little Skinny Vegas Wedding.'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-610284216941813896</id><published>2009-08-13T18:11:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-13T20:01:55.255-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='unique ideas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ceremonies'/><title type='text'>Just say NO to the Unity Candle</title><summary type='text'>I have seen the whole "lighting of the unity candle" ceremony go terribly wrong ...so many times.The flame of on the thing that lights the candle goes out on the way down the aisle. The wick won't stay litNobody has a back up cigarette lighter to relight the candle.The candle won't come out of the holder when you and the hubbie tries to light it. Or fake candle falls apart you pull it out.And God</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/610284216941813896/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/just-say-no-to-unity-candle.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/610284216941813896'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/610284216941813896'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/just-say-no-to-unity-candle.html' title='Just say NO to the Unity Candle'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-1696631813764746814</id><published>2009-08-10T11:29:00.007-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-13T20:03:35.287-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='celebrity couples'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='advice'/><title type='text'>Many Black Celeb Couples Last ...</title><summary type='text'>Many black celebrity couples have been together for so long, their wedding pictures pre-date the internet.  LOL.  Plus we tend to keep our business to ourselves.  (case and point, I can't find Jay Z and Beyonce pics at all).  Some couples pictured above aren't together anymore but most African-American Couples have lasted close to 10 years or more.For example:Tamia and Grant HillDieon and Pillar </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/1696631813764746814/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/celebrity-weddings.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/1696631813764746814'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/1696631813764746814'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/celebrity-weddings.html' title='Many Black Celeb Couples Last ...'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-8617241072061234545</id><published>2009-08-09T20:23:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-09T20:59:44.252-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Supa Cute Wedding Shoes</title><summary type='text'>I love shoes, And as a photog, I must say that I love when a bride has a cute interesting pair of shoes to take pics of. Although many times you never see the brides shoes why not use your wedding as an excuse to buy some cute shoes! I found these shoes on Zappo.com.  Click the pictures to go and check out the prices. Sometimes you have to splurg!!!</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/8617241072061234545/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/supa-cute-wedding-shoes.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/8617241072061234545'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/8617241072061234545'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/supa-cute-wedding-shoes.html' title='Supa Cute Wedding Shoes'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-139202170773508522</id><published>2009-08-07T00:25:00.011-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-07T16:19:03.254-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='funny videos'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Poll'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='1st Dance'/><title type='text'>Cast Your Vote for the Best "Surprise" 1st Dance</title><summary type='text'>I love dance. I do. I always wanted to be on Soul Train or one of the Fly Girl's from In Living Color, so anything to do with dance, I'm totally in. So the new "thing" now is do this "surprise" 1st dance at the wedding reception, and as corny as it might be I'm sure each couple has a ball learning the dance moves with their significant other and showcasing it.  The most unlikely couples bust a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/139202170773508522/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/vote-for-best-surprise-1st-dance.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/139202170773508522'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/139202170773508522'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/vote-for-best-surprise-1st-dance.html' title='Cast Your Vote for the Best &quot;Surprise&quot; 1st Dance'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-3441379449881475450</id><published>2009-08-05T11:47:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-07T01:32:00.814-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bridal shower ideas'/><title type='text'>Unique Bridal Shower</title><summary type='text'>Not to toot my own horn but I threw a bridal shower for my BFF that was sooooo cool, fun, and unique.Here's what I did.I had the shower at a Wine Bar I found on Yelp that had gotten great reviews.  The guest list was small, only about 10 people including her mom.  The place was so nice and perfect for an intimate get together with the girls.  The service was great.  We had a wine tasting (white </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/3441379449881475450/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/best-bridal-shower.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/3441379449881475450'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/3441379449881475450'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/best-bridal-shower.html' title='Unique Bridal Shower'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-4130265776377887299</id><published>2009-08-04T11:27:00.011-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-07T02:17:32.760-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='10 random things'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='advice'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='maid-of-honor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bridezilla'/><title type='text'>The Bride is the Boss but may not be qualified....</title><summary type='text'>That's where you come in...Many times during the wedding planning process there are a ton of details and people to be managed and some of us are better managers than others.  Everybody isn't a leader, unfortunately when its time for someones wedding, the bride, (qualified or not), is the boss, she is the HNIC, if you don't like it don't be a part of the wedding because stress in inevitable.If you</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/4130265776377887299/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/bride-is-boss-but-may-not-be-qualified.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/4130265776377887299'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/4130265776377887299'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/bride-is-boss-but-may-not-be-qualified.html' title='The Bride is the Boss but may not be qualified....'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-7820148060144942499</id><published>2009-08-03T15:55:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-07T02:17:03.517-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='groom'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bridezilla'/><title type='text'>Please don't do this to yo man!</title><summary type='text'></summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/7820148060144942499/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/please-dont-do-this-to-yo-man.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/7820148060144942499'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/7820148060144942499'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/please-dont-do-this-to-yo-man.html' title='Please don&apos;t do this to yo man!'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-3352030699664735356</id><published>2009-07-30T18:18:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-07T02:16:31.295-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Processional'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='unique ideas'/><title type='text'>The Spirit of Togetherness</title><summary type='text'>THE SPIRIT OF TOGETHERNESSFor the "jumping the broom" ceremony, the bride and groom had two African dancers dance down the isle holding the broom.  The song that was playing was called "Umoja the spirit of togetherness". It was so cool.  The song was upbeat and made everyone smile and clap.  Once the dancers go to the end of the aisle they laid down the broom and the bride and groom jumped over </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/3352030699664735356/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/07/spirit-of-togetherness.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/3352030699664735356'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/3352030699664735356'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/07/spirit-of-togetherness.html' title='The Spirit of Togetherness'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-1068300034539718020</id><published>2009-07-24T20:12:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-07T02:15:43.556-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='funny videos'/><title type='text'>If you gon do it .... go all out !</title><summary type='text'>Okay, so on my last post "10 Things to Avoid At Your Black Wedding" ... I advised not to 2-step or pimp walk down the aisle, because in my opinion it is disrespectful.  Well after watching this video I realized that if you feel so compelled to do it you should should go ALL out like the couple in the video. WATCH, LEARN, ... GO ALL OUT!</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/1068300034539718020/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/07/if-you-gon-do-it-go-all-out.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/1068300034539718020'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/1068300034539718020'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/07/if-you-gon-do-it-go-all-out.html' title='If you gon do it .... go all out !'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-4334354402996521179</id><published>2009-07-22T18:38:00.011-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-07T02:15:02.955-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='10 random things'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='advice'/><title type='text'>10 Random Things to Avoid at Your Black Wedding</title><summary type='text'>Please tell your cousins to back the hell up trying to take pictures of the bride and groom with their camera phones.... getting all in the photographers way, the photographer you PAID to be there. (just look a that girl in the picture)Tell your groom to cut his nails if he likes to keep them long. Also, make sure all that you and all your bridesmaids shave their arm pits and wax the 'staches if </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/4334354402996521179/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/07/10-random-things-to-avoid-at-your-black.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/4334354402996521179'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/4334354402996521179'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/07/10-random-things-to-avoid-at-your-black.html' title='10 Random Things to Avoid at Your Black Wedding'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/SmfdiCupHWI/AAAAAAAAAAc/yNYeMqUrr1M/s72-c/DSC_7024.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-2207302242496869866</id><published>2009-07-21T19:27:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-07T02:14:40.306-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parents'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding photography'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blended families'/><title type='text'>Who is Married to Who?</title><summary type='text'>Let a sista know before something pop off.I recall a wedding that I did once where the father of the Groom brought his wife and the mother of the groom was single. Normally I would find out who was who ... who was married to who.... at the wedding rehearsal but this particular bride and groom decided to forgo the rehearsal.  So I had not a clue.  I like to do this one picture where the parents </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/2207302242496869866/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/07/who-is-married-to-who-let-sista-know.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/2207302242496869866'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/2207302242496869866'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/07/who-is-married-to-who-let-sista-know.html' title='Who is Married to Who?'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/SmZhKbNKU5I/AAAAAAAAAAM/w5vkhdYu_0s/s72-c/HEATHMADDOX+1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5914467299429604268.post-6176234332771811946</id><published>2009-07-21T00:32:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-07T02:13:32.412-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='advice'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>If I don't know nothing...I know weddings.</title><summary type='text'>When I was 20 years old I got married.  I took a year to plan the wedding, I had the perfect dress and perfect colors (mint green and cream).  I don't think I was a Bridezilla but thinking back on it I had a certain air of arrogance when it came to the details of the wedding day.  I remember when I woke up the morning of the wedding everything seemed to fall into place. My hair and makeup </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/feeds/6176234332771811946/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/07/if-i-dont-know-nothingi-know-weddings.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/6176234332771811946'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5914467299429604268/posts/default/6176234332771811946'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybigfatblackwedding.blogspot.com/2009/07/if-i-dont-know-nothingi-know-weddings.html' title='If I don&apos;t know nothing...I know weddings.'/><author><name>mamafree</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7VZXw7DeA/Sn9oGc5BzJI/AAAAAAAAABI/1HZ4sSNmePY/s1600-R/wedding_clip_art_01.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
